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The best advice I can give you is that
It's a really very fucked up if you decide to leave and let the mother take care of the child, looking at the situation from a childs perspective it's the worst feeling that any child will have to face being raised without a father being around....YOUR BEAUTIFUL DAUGHTER will HATE you for that(THIS IS SERIOUS MAN)
Your'll have a child,its the most precious gift that any person can get,whatever feelings you had for the mother try to take a trip down memory lane to recreate the love you had for her....I said LOVE not SEX.
Men like ourselves tend to clog our minds with LOVE=SEX but it isnt. I understand that you have abstained for 4 months but the fact is that women need to be treated like Princesses, they need to be told that they look absolutely gorgeous, they need to feel as if they are loved.
Most of the time "US" men dont ever really listen to what women want, Guy they are way different to how we feel, react, think. Listen to her, be gentle,kind, take her out on a date,be romantic, flowers, chocolate, candy and anything that she loves and you will see by the way she smiles or laughs when you do all those things that slowly but surely you will fall in love will her,and I am sure beyond any reasonable doubt that she will change coz she will see a change in you.
I hope this message gets in time to you before you say and do anything irrattional
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