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Old 06-09-2005, 03:26 AM  
xenigo
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Originally Posted by TopBucksTrixxxia
Although I agree, I'm sure his beef isn't that she's had a life before him or that he had to see proof of it - but that she still has the tape with her is more what's tearing him apart. Unless the past relationships was something that was openly talked about and sharing 'experiences' was part of their kinks together, he's not going to be too happy about his future wife holding on to a very 'special' memory via a sex tape. (unless she expected pimpporn to become president or famous one day and she could have used it to her benefit somehow)
It comes down to the difference between women and men. I've admitted to having sex tapes, and images of a sexually explicit nature of past girls I've dated. I don't know why women get so bent out of shape about things of that nature. Hell it's my life, my future has nothing to do with my past, and my photography is simply a memory of my life. It's something I like to look back on occasionally, for memories sake.

But women are entirely different than men. Past girlfriends have been jeleous of my porn collection on my machine. I've had girls tell me it's okay to have some porn, but not 60 gigs. Well, what's the difference between just a little bit, and alot? Where does one draw the line? The point is women are jeleous creatures, and men are visual creatures that can appreciate visual stimulation for it's face value - visual stimulation. Women seem to assume that equates to emotional stimulation.
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