Originally Posted by thefool

Being single has its advantages & disadvantages... for some reason, I'm horrible at relationships. I fall in love with all the WRONG guys, and the ones who like me, I can't stand. I'm even worse at the F w/ B (friends with benefits) scene, because one side always wants more than just some meaningless sex. At this point in life, I'd like a serious relationship. This past year was my "guilt free summer of fun" and I racked up some experience, eliminated some prior relationship baggage, and re-evaluated what I want and what I'll put into a relationship, when the time comes.

The only downside to being single is that when you come to family bbqs, dinners, and functions you can bring a date, but its never the same one twice. I don't want my family & friends keeping a mental tally of all the 'friends' I have. LMAO I also hate being the oldest sibling who's single at Christmas, while my younger siblings & their fiances & babies are all there. My grandparents are constantly asking me when I'll get married & have children... to which I replied (at my last birthday party) "don't worry, when I find a man who's attractive, rich, well hung, that can satisfy me sexually, you'll get your wedding invites." (I really shouldn't drink tequila) Needless to say... the topic hasnt come up since ;) lol