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Originally Posted by xXxtreme2005
the kids are another problem, they are still confussed and I don't want to bring a bunch of girls around them and confuse them more.
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well of course you don't want a bunch of women in and out of your home, just keep your personal life seperate from your home life. If any female can't understand that, then she isn't worth your time anyway.
As far as dating goes, if you aren't ready to get involved then don't, there is no law that says you only have a certain amount of time to get over what you went through. Do whats best for you, if that means having 1 night stands so be it, do it and don't feel bad about it. (I know it's strange to hear a woman say that), but seriously as long as you aren't leading a female on do what you need to do. When you're ready and your daughters are in a better frame of mind you may move beyond 1 night stands, and into something more fullfilling.