sex is a LARGE part of any adult realationship, i could never even stay with someone that long, they are not "into" oral, well if they like you at all they should like to give you oral because it pleases you same with vise versa.
you need to add something to your realationship, something to spice it up, it could be thing outside the bed that is affecting it.
you also never should ask for sex, one day when you walk into the house just walk up to her, lift her up, start to kiss her and then fuck her hard, women like surprises.
also women like to be fucked like animals, although some are a little shy to admit it you need to fuck them no holds bar, you need to show them that they can do anything in the bedroom and not change anything.
women like men that "ARE THE MAN" start being the man. make her cum like she has never cummed before and she will be addicted to you for life.
if none of this works then it is time to break up with her, i have no time for women that insecurities affect them in the bedroom.
