Originally Posted by flirty

first, i look for a partner

kidding aside...i honestly agree with what other said. i think it should work both ways. you please her, she pleases you. it's a two-way traffic dear & if the other keeps on insisting her own thing all the time, then i guess you'll forever be miserable.
or worse, you might end up cheating on her.

the best thing is to try ask her in a nice sweet way how you want her to please you in bed (or try others' pieces of advice). then if no improvements, then maybe you really should move on.