A friend of mine was married to a woman for 4 years who wouldnt do anything but lay there in bed for sex. He told her he was up for whatever but she wouldnt and was not willing to compromize. They are divorced now.
I have been married 9 years and I can tell you that if your woman is not willing to make compromises in the bedroom to keep you happy (and vice versa) then your heading down the wrong path towards a lasting relationship. Compromise to please each other is the only way its gonna work, now of course she could draw the line at certain things, but handjobs and blowjobs are completely legitimate requests and I honestly would think she should be excited to do what it took to please you if she really cared about your happiness and not just her own.
