I know a couple that use AFF quite regularly...only ever had one bad experience where the female was what seemed to them quite unhygenic....

but mostly have had nothing but good reports. I have had a look at the site and it seems it needs a good clearing out. Way too many pages to sift through and if your not a paying member you can only look at two profiles a day.....yeah I know...I'm cheap.
http://fallendomains.com
40,000+ expired names daily plus a TON more.