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Originally Posted by baddog
The reason I say 25 is because before then most people have not learned enough about themselves, or how to be self-reliant. Going straight from mommy taking care of you to having some chick take care of you makes no sense.
Same thing with chicks, going from daddy taking care of you to relying on a guy.
Show some independence, go out and experience life. Fuck your brains out with multiple partners, rather than getting married to the first person that will have sex with you.
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I agree fully. Most people aren't mature enough to vote at 25, let alone get married. Hell, most people are never mature enough to vote, but that's a totally different discussion.
Anyway, having had quite a little bit of wild life in my days and being far from just flown-out of the nest, I suppose getting married at 23 wasn't as stupid a decision as most would think it would be. Sure, for most people this would seem as the stupidest thing to do. But looking back, I never regreted my decision for a single second and I still consider myself one lucky guy for not chickening out, as most would. Bottom line, if it feels right and you feel confident enough to have a family, I see no point not to do it.