Originally Posted by Furious_Female

I'm a woman (obviously) and I can tell you right now where that situation is going. I know for a fact that unless a guy is gay, they aren't just friends with a woman without wanting to be with them sexually and/or date them.

She is bored and curious. She wants attention. I understand her not relating to other women... I'm pretty much the same way. Her intentions might be completely innocent and she might want just a friend to hang out with and talk, but let me tell you what that friendship will be like. This guy will prey on her vulnerabilities. He will plant seeds of doubt in your relationship with her. She will tell him about little things that bother her about you and the problems you 2 have. You might think you have a perfect relationship, but I'm sure there's things that bother her and she will confide in this guy. He will of course be on her side and make you seem completely wrong about everything. He will pretend to be the caring "friend" and listen to her etc.... he will give her the attention she craves from someone else and they will spend more and more time together.

You can cheat on a person emotionally as well as physically. What she is doing is borderline cheating. At least to me it is. How would she feel if you went out with a female friend a few times a week? What does it say about your relationship if both of you are going out with members of the opposite sex all the time? This is the beginning of the end my friend... I hate to say it. You're in denial right now. Even if this "friendship" she has with this guy ends, there will just be another "friend" in his place somewhere down the line. You can defend her and what she will do/say... but if you don't see the signs now, they will hit you a lot more when you realize what is happening.

Good luck.