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Originally Posted by sperbonzo
I totally agree with this post. I would take that advice if I were you.... It is the ONLY thing that you can do to fix this situation. PLEASE believe me on that.
And by the way, speaking as a 42 year old guy that has been through TONS of this stuff... you may eventually learn the hard way that "she would never cheat on me", is a really dumb statement.
STAY STRONG AND GET YOUR OWN LIFE....THAT IS THE ONLY WAY TO KEEP A GIRL INTERESTED IN THIS TYPE OF SITUATION. Sitting around with no life is NOT attractive to women, they want a challenge, they want someone that is strong and secure, and they want someone that has a life of their own. Get active, and get a life.
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Listen to this old man. He knows what he's talking about. I have a woman now who keeps BEGGING me to invite her over and she even admitted to me that if I wasn't so nonchalant and indifferent to being around her, she wouldn't be so pressed to see me.
Women like it when you have other things to do besides being with them....
I had an 18 year old girlfriend that I knew since she was 16 and after living with me only three weeks, she was ALREADY tired of watching me sitting in front of the tv juggling my balls all day....It actually turned her on more when I got off my ass and at least went out to jog.
So listen to him. Get your own life and once she sees that you don't NEED her anymore, she'll get more interested. But as long as she knows that you'll be at home with your thumb up her ass waiting for her to get home, she'll keep doing what she's doing...If she knew that when she got home that you MIGHT NOT be there, that's when the fun begins.