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Originally Posted by CDSmith
My advice----
Go get a life of your own. Start going out with your own friends, start doing things, get your ass out of the house instead of as you said... "having too much time to THINK"
Enough with the sitting and thinking, time to act.
One of two things will happen.... Either she'll eventually become curious about what you're doing and she'll start to miss you, in which case she'll start wanting to be around you more.
Or.... she will move forward with... whatever it is she's doing already.
The last thing I would do is hand her ultimatums or try to weasel your way in to her time with "friends".... that would most likely annoy the shit out of her. I advise you to get yourself busy and start going out more, without her. See how she likes it. If it's meant to be, she'll come around.
Good luck with whatever you decide to do.
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I totally agree with this post. I would take that advice if I were you.... It is the ONLY thing that you can do to fix this situation. PLEASE believe me on that.
And by the way, speaking as a 42 year old guy that has been through TONS of this stuff... you may eventually learn the hard way that "she would never cheat on me", is a really dumb statement.
STAY STRONG AND GET YOUR OWN LIFE....THAT IS THE ONLY WAY TO KEEP A GIRL INTERESTED IN THIS TYPE OF SITUATION. Sitting around with no life is NOT attractive to women, they want a challenge, they want someone that is strong and secure, and they want someone that has a life of their own. Get active, and get a life.
Get to it.
