Quote:
|
Originally Posted by galleryseek
She's 18 and I'm basically the only guy she has been with (I'm 21). In these 3 years she has also never cheated on me and I know she never will.
|
Your confidence in her will be your downfall. The girl is only 18 years old for heavens sake. She might seem old and mature to a guy your age, but to anyone else older, who's been through that "18-25 age experience" stage, will tell you that you're in for a serious eye opener.
Don't feel bad. We all go through it at that young age...believing in crazy shit that we shouldn't be. It's part of life, part of personal growth and something we all experience one time or another.
As far as your girl: sounds to me like she's bored and craving some attention....but, not the kind of attention that you're thinking of. She's craving the kind of attention only a "new" person can give her. That feeling you get when discovering someone new, or someone coming back into her life. Just like how most relationships are great for the first few months cause it's new and then slowly sink into a dismal routine or breakup.
To put it simply bro, she's tired of repetition.
And her being tired of repetition, being 18, and hanging out with this guy is surely just the first step of what's to come. It could be a slow process, or a fast one. Know this though; she will deny it (they ALL deny it) and be completely offended if you asked her about him...until you find out later (sometimes years later as it's been mentioned by a few in this thread) that something did in fact happen, which it will.
And as far as her guy friend, that's simple. Either he's gay, or he's trying to get down her pants.