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Originally Posted by galleryseek
In these 3 years she has also never cheated on me and I know she never will.
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Ignore everything else and think about this for a minute. she hasnt nor will she cheat on you so you think. Who cares if she has male/female friends and goes out with them every now and then.
There is a reasonable limit to the amount of time someone should spend with someone else. There is a difference in once and a while vs. a few times a week. If you want to talk to her about it just say something like "I dont mind you spending time with your friends but dont you think you've been spending a little too much time with this one guy?" This way you dont come off as a jealous/possessive BF, shes still allowed to spend time with friends and but gets the hint that you might have a problem with the amount of time spent with him.
You can "test" her out... what i would do is not try to initiate sex with her for a while and see how long it takes before she comes to you for sex. Chances are if shes fucking someone else shes not going to be as interested in sex as she once was.
Quite honestly, i would have a problem with my GF spending THAT much time with an ex boyfriend.