oops, forgot to mention...she's basically the reason I'm divorced(from a ten year marriage). From 12-15 she got very violent towards me, so I had to get my son I out of that situation. Even with all of that, I've always loved her and felt so sorry for her, since she had such a fucked up mother, that wanted nothing to do with her! I just had to choose what was best for my son. What an amazing feeling for me! I did all the school field trips, volunteering, took cake decorating to make her special cakes all the "good mom" stuff. I never thought she appreciated it....but now she does!
