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This whole topic drives me nuts.
"Plus, we are in the adult biz, and Vanilla does dress sexy and flirt with friends at shows"
I'm not taking sides but this comment hit me sideways. ha! This exact situation happened to me at a show wearing baggy ass pants a long sleeve shirt and i never said boo to the guy - I didnt even know more than his name. I was dressed to divert attention, not attract it ON PURPOSE. Alot of good it did. You dont have to be a model; you just have to be female.
This type of situation has nothing to do with the biz, dress, or friendly flirting. It's the people and level of sobriety. Ever been to a bar or a party? Same crap different atmosphere.
It's a sad, sorry situation and frustrating as hell for everyone involved.
It's nice to see everyone at least try to work it out.
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