Originally Posted by galleryseek

dont listen to iwantchixx, lol. you don't need couple counselling, you're still young and from my opinion, the relationship isn't "beyond repair". if she's a reasonable person, she will understand that no one is perfect, and life is a process of learning and admitting your wrong, and making change. that's what you need to do, and if you successfully make that change, she won't hold it against you, trust me. she'll hold it WITH you, in happiness knowing that she scored a guy that owned up to the fact that he was wrong about something, and did what it took to change. keyword being CHANGE. women know that a man who has the ability / heart to change is a man worth keeping.