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Originally Posted by Pimp Dough
Her parents caused us additional stress (which started before this shit I pulled and it continues on today). I know I can only blame myself for anything that goes wrong.
I feel horrible, but despite the fact I did all of this... she said she wants to work things out.
She is coming over later today and we are supposed to be going on a walk. I guess that would be the perfect time to apologize and let her know I have learned a great lesson, whether or not we stay together is a test of true love.
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Every relationship has an outside stress factor. Whether it be medling friends or contorlling parents or whatnot. You just have to learn to deal with it and not let it affect your everyday life. Sacrifice is a major part of any relationship. For my girl and I we have medling family members that always try to tell us what to dow hen raising our child. It's not easy, soemtimes I think I am going to freak out kick their asses but I just deal with it and go about my day.
One piece of advice, if she displays that she doesn't want to talk about it when you apologize then just say "that's ok hun, we can talk about this when your ready". Don't force her to have to accept your apology right the and there and don;t take it personally. She has to deal with this on her own time and terms. That's one of the biggest mistakles that I always do even to this day and it adds more stress to conflicts.