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Originally Posted by bllott
that's exactly my point, you feel really good, and you should always be able to tell her that you love her, but after that, it's all over man, she realizes she has power over you and gradually it all goes to hell. I have felt what you said, as the happiest day of my life when i told a woman that i loved her and meant it, but after that it all goes downhill baby, in a relationship, one person is always at a lower level, taken advantage of, and when you acknowledge that you're under her control by saying that you love her and would do anything for her, it's over for you bro, believe me. btw are you still with that girl that you told you love, or did it all fall apart after for "different reasons"?
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i've been with my girl for 3 years now and we've told each other for nearly 2 years now that we love eachother... and it hasn't gone downhill at all.
so what's happening to me? am i the one exception?
your logic, whether or not it comes from personal experience (which i assume it has with a run of bad luck) is flawed.