mistake #1 is that you told her you loved her. The moment any woman sees that she is loved, and gets the confidence that she has all your feelings, it's over for her, because she doesn't know what to do with that, and doesn't appreciate it. I have not met one woman that hasn't changed once you tell her that you love her. That's the one thing you should never do. It's law. Also, you should try to keep things so that she loves you, and she's always unhappy with the amount of affection you're giving her. That way if she doesn't love you, she'll leave, if she does love you, she'll always keep on coming back to you and looking within herself for something wrong, because she's insecure. Most women become insecure in a situation where they are in love and they see that they're not getting the same thing back. This is the only way you're going to have a relationship where the girl doesn't look to her past and beyond you.
The moment you get all emotional, and she sees she has power over you, it's over man 100% no matter what anyone says, if you believe otherwise, you're in a for a big surprise.
As for your situation, once it's over it's over, don't think that when a person hesitates and the previous spark is gone, you can rekindle the fire and make her love you. Believe me, once it's over it's over, and you'll do yourself a great big favor if you forget about her and move on. If you come back to her after she dumped you, you're setting yourself up for stage 2 (an even higher realization on her behalf that she has power over you) and an even worse humiliation, cause she'll dump your amorous ass soo hard next time you won't know what hit yea. I'm assuming you're young, go out and tap some ass, don't even think twice man, i'm sure you don't look that bad either if you can get a girl of her description above.
