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at this point n' time of your gf's life, there's definitely a significant part of her that wants to be free and wild, it is only natural. i've been with my gf for 3 years now, i'm 21 and she's 18 1/2... i can relate with you in much of the same way because she wants to start hanging out with her old friends (from like 4 / 5 years ago) who happen to all be guys... we're really close and i know i don't have anything to worry about, but having been through the same routine for 3 years virtually without any outside contact w/ friends, it has gotten to her and she wants to be able to do more things - and once you're with someone for so long, the smallest change can seem like a huge change and effect you in a big way... i have those same fucking insecurities, but it's a matter of keeping your mind focused on the fact that you know she won't do anything, and in time you will adjust to it and it won't be such a bother anymore. you can't restrain her, if she DOES do something with another guy, then at least you know you did all you could do - because restraining her makes you at fault.
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