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Tala · 04-18-2005, 08:40 AM

Hate to say it, but I'm with your girlfriend on this. Doesn't she get enough over-control from her parents? Jesus.

Let her have a life that doesn't revolve around you. With a fucking curfew of 10.30 pm, she doesn't have TIME to go shagging around. I applaud her for having the balls to finally let you know where her line gets drawn.

If you think loving someone is to be jealous and controlling, then you're going to have to let this girl go. She wants something more than to be "on a leash" for the rest of her life.

One other thing to consider: When she finally does get out of her parents' house, she's going to find so much independance that she's going to go nuts. At least once, if only for a few hours. That feeling of freedom becomes engulfing, and if you're there trying to be all jealous and controlling, she'll rebel against you for standing in her way. That's life. When it's suddenly discovered that you don't have to answer to anyone but yourself for your actions, the feeling is a very heady mix of terror and ecstacy. Let her have her moment in the sun.

If you really love her and want her in your life, then you're going to have to let up. She has enough issues with overbearing parents, the last thing she needs is an overbearing boyfriend.

04-18-2005, 08:40 AM
Tala Fucked if I know Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Do you have a flag? Posts: 23,368	Hate to say it, but I'm with your girlfriend on this. Doesn't she get enough over-control from her parents? Jesus. Let her have a life that doesn't revolve around you. With a fucking curfew of 10.30 pm, she doesn't have TIME to go shagging around. I applaud her for having the balls to finally let you know where her line gets drawn. If you think loving someone is to be jealous and controlling, then you're going to have to let this girl go. She wants something more than to be "on a leash" for the rest of her life. One other thing to consider: When she finally does get out of her parents' house, she's going to find so much independance that she's going to go nuts. At least once, if only for a few hours. That feeling of freedom becomes engulfing, and if you're there trying to be all jealous and controlling, she'll rebel against you for standing in her way. That's life. When it's suddenly discovered that you don't have to answer to anyone but yourself for your actions, the feeling is a very heady mix of terror and ecstacy. Let her have her moment in the sun. If you really love her and want her in your life, then you're going to have to let up. She has enough issues with overbearing parents, the last thing she needs is an overbearing boyfriend. __________________ ICQ: 11120676 \| Google: mindcrime \| Skype: suitemindcrime\|E-Mail: mindcrime AT gmail.com\|PR girl with great writing skills for hire!!!! Contact me to work for YOU!\|TECHIEMEDIA? 24/7 support from some of the best techs in the biz. Tell Jim that I sent you.