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WOW, touching post.
I understand how you would feel about you having the better life and him not. Don't beat yourself up over it though, it's nobody's fault but the mother's. She had a choice and chose to side with her nutty parents. He's 38 and still has a long while to go yet, maybe with your father's guidance and inclusion into your family things will go the way they are supposed to be for him from now on.
I "may" have a half brother in my home town. When my mother first met my father he just got out of a relationship with another girl. The story goes that he got her pregnant and later they split then she slept with and married another guy and the guy thinks that he is the father. The kid, his "father" and my father don't know.
From what my mother tells me I used to chum with the boy when I was really young but I don't know who the fuck she's talking about. She won't even tell me his name, who the mother is or nothing. She's very vague. All she told me is that I chummed with a kid in school that is actually my brother and that he lives a very comfortable life. I'd like to know who the guy is. Not to tell him who is real father is, I'll leave that up to my own father to do once I find out who the kid is, well not kid anymore... he'd be 27 now, but so I could at least know who he is. From what my mother said is that he looks just like me and I'm surprised I never noticed it from anyone in school because all males on my fathers side, myself, his kids and my son all look alike. Very distinguishing traits.
I don't even know where to begin, my mother and I are not on talking terms, in fact, I have no idea where she is anymore. She's been warned that her life may end as she knows it if she steps foot on my property. I'll sign her into a mental institution for the rest of her life where she belongs.
Anyways, any ideas on how to find out who he is would be greatly appreciated. Maybe there's some kind of a database in Canada that keeps track if shit like this as I would assume that the real biological father's name would have to be documented at least somewhere.
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