Quote:
|
Originally Posted by vicki
Because you said you were so disappointed in yourself when this happened,
I'm curious as to how/what you'll change?
|
I've changed my whole life around...
I put a lot of negative aspects of my life behind me...
I'm a completely new individual...
I cleaned up parts of my life that were counter-productive
I had a big problem with chasing women, I would say that I had a borderline sexual addiction, apart of that problem was that I allowed myself to put up with a lot of bullshit just so I could have sex with them.
I've completely taken myself out of that game
I'm now abstinent and feel really strong about my decision...
When going into relationships with women either as just a friend or something more seriously....
When you take sex completely out of the equation, your able to think clearly...
and really make a better decision on whether or not a person deserves your time...
For example..
In the past I'd deal with a woman with lots of issues, who had a negative lifestyle just because she had such an immense sexual attraction....
I'd ignore all the warning signs and red flags of getting involved with a woman with like that...
and end up paying later...
in some shape form or fashion...
Also..
ANOTHER big change in me..
Is that I have taken a lot of pressure off of myself...
I realize that this world is just temporary..
This world is just a test, the goal of this life is to Love God and Your Fellow Man....
Everything else is trivial at best....
I'm no longer on a lifetime mission of being a millionaire, because I know that isn't what life is about....
Money is important for survival..
but having millions and millions isn't necessary for survival
When this life is over, and we enter into the realm of eternity
No dollar amount we amassed here is going to matter at all....
Spiritual Wealth
Is much more important than
Worldly Wealth
If you can have both, then thats not a bad thing..
But I'd much rather be just making it/common worker with a good spiritual wealth praising The God each day and loving my fellow man as I love myself...
Instead of being a millionaire who indulges in every worldly thing and neglects his spiritual health.