Originally Posted by CDSmith

Let's see if I have this right...

he has no job, yet has impeccable taste in food and spends your money to buy "only the best"
he puts you down for being a woman
tells you to "know your place"
stays home, doesn't look for a job and plays computer games all day
has a horrible temper
gets angry and condescending when he doesn't get his way

Oh yeah, this guy is a GREAT catch. Phogirl, it looks to me like you're just going to have to learn the hard way. I don't wish you any heartbreak, but the sad fact is that judging by what you're telling me of the guy you are headed for a major letdown.

I get the distinct impression that the only reason this guy stays loyal to you is because you are his full-time personal meal ticket. Don't fool yourself, there are plenty of other guys out there who do all those things he does for you but who also have some drive and initiative when it comes to earning a living. There are plenty of guys who have a much higher respect for women than the lazy mommy's boy you call a boyfriend.

Sorry to say it, but I'm 100% sure your present relationship is a trainwreck in progress.