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Originally Posted by phogirl69
Also, people keep asking on here why I won't leave him. He does have a lot of very good qualities and I just can't leave because I am too attached.
Besides the horrible temper, he is good to me; he always cooks for me, when I was sick he would bring me food or cook for me 3-4 times a day, he doesn't go out (I am sick of guys who go out everynight clubbing/drinking with their friends and checking out other girls), he is faithful ( I know he is because he doesn't go ANYWHERE, he is always home with me, all he does is play Counterstrike all day), he is sensitive. I know he is ready to settle down, because he stopped going out with all his friends and partying, like he used to before me, he basically made me his life and I know he is ready to be with me for the rest of his life.
I think it evens out that I pay for stuff because he really takes care of me, cooks for me, always makes sure I am ok, he really does do a lot of things for me, more than most guys I think would do for someone. It's just that he has
the WORST temper ever.
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Let's see if I have this right...
he has no job, yet has impeccable taste in food and spends your money to buy "only the best"
he puts you down for being a woman
tells you to "know your place"
stays home, doesn't look for a job and plays computer games all day
has a horrible temper
gets angry and condescending when he doesn't get his way
Oh yeah, this guy is a GREAT catch. Phogirl, it looks to me like you're just going to have to learn the hard way. I don't wish you any heartbreak, but the sad fact is that judging by what you're telling me of the guy you are headed for a major letdown.
I get the distinct impression that the only reason this guy stays loyal to you is because you are his full-time personal meal ticket. Don't fool yourself, there are plenty of other guys out there who do all those things he does for you but who also have some drive and initiative when it comes to earning a living. There are plenty of guys who have a much higher respect for women than the lazy mommy's boy you call a boyfriend.
Sorry to say it, but I'm 100% sure your present relationship is a trainwreck in progress.