Paul,
I don't know why I'm giving you this advice. I should be keeping it to myself. But take a look at these two sites:
http://www.nakedcollegegirls.tv (aka DonnysGirls.com)
http://tour1.nakedcollegegirls.tv (an alternate tour for the same site)
Which do you think converts better? The answer is the first one.
Think about it: you're selling the site as that of an dirty old man having fun with teens. Would ANY heterosexual male use girlish colors if they created the site themselves? Hell no. Get rid of the pinks, girlish writing, light blues... etc.
And, like I said above, read "Build it and they will come" on
www.***************.com