Just another point on the "racism" aspect of this post. Personally, i couldn't give a flying fuck if someone is racist or not. It doesn't bother me to be honset. But, the name of this post, and the fact that you were compelled to mention the fact that he was black, made me think?
Fucking Assholes
Assholes? Plural? ... Correct me if i'm wrong, but it seems as if you're referring to more than one black person, or the entire black race, not just the man that robbed your wife.
In conclusion, you are a racist. Just thought i'd let you know, seeing as you thought otherwise.
And about
having to spend hours with your hysterical girlfriend, you really aren't much of a man if you can't take care of her emotionally once in a while. You might not think so, but having your support and just your presence around her probably helps her a great deal more than you realise.