We are men ('cept for the Kitty) so it's always fun feeling like big mack daddies but at some point we all end falling into relationships (I said falling because it's never planned) and are very happy for either the short or a long period of time it lasts.
Most people old enough to have been through this a few times will tell you that even if that relationship only lasts 3 months it still beats a full year of playing the field. There's just something about having that comfort zone with a woman. You don't have to put on the 'dating show' all the time. You have pussy, that you know you like, on call. No more "Aww damn, I can't find my A & B list chicks tonight, hmm...I wonder where Suzie, the freaky chick with the club foot is..."
There's something great about not having to go through the organizational drama that comes with being a Playa.
Of course all the STD and other sexual things are definitely a plus but having a woman you don't want to leave at the crack of dawn so she doesn't get too attached is a great thing and much less of a hassle.
I just came up with a way to explain it to the younger guys... Having a relationship is like having a month long paid gallery listing on The Hun, or AL4A or Snakes. Instead of building galleries, submitting every 3 or 4 days, worrying about whether you get listed or not, If you have the guarenteed spot you can relax and focus on the more important and enjoyable things in life because you know that part of your day is already taken care of.
Flapjacks are cool too, but the girls down south will cook biscuts from scratch for ya!
