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Originally Posted by 2HousePlague
I don't think there's anything terribly laudable in my observation.
People fuck and want to be fucked... Each person, corresponding in their moments, Now and Then, to the familiar roles called "You" or "I", at times desires to see themselves "puppet-like" in the control of another, or else, to see the other "puppet-like" in their control.
But, in all cases, what fires the Sex in us, is the detection of a Complement within our grasp -- someone willing to dance while we gesticulate the strings, or someone willing to play proxy to OUR will, while WE dance, and leap and twist ... without consequence, without risk.
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Hmmm... perhaps its your prosaic style, but my interpretation is that you insist every sexual encounter involves some sort of power imbalance, where there must always be a dominant (puppetmaster) and submissive (puppet) role. I'll grant you that often power games can add a lot of spice to a sexual pallette, but I reject the notion that EVERY coupling involves such crass manipulations.
Don't get me wrong... I love bending my wife over and riding her halfway across the room sometimes, and I love her pouncing on me when she's feeling frisky, but I also love it when we meet together as equals in giving and receiving pleasure.
I think this is also the first time I've gotten to use the word 'pallette' on GFY, ever.
