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you seem to forget that years ago 40 year olds married 18 year olds. Why is it so different now? Well for one, women have more say in what goes on in the world, it's the older women who freak out about it and it has been embeded in our brains that 40-18 is a nono. Does that make it so wrong? Personally if an 18 year old female friend of mine wanted to be with a 40 year old, I would make damn sure she knew what she was getting into but fully support her. Age is just age.
While I feel it wouldn't be fair for the younger of the couple because she wouldn't have a chance to really "grow" with her lover naturally and go through life stages at the same time I still think it's totally up to them and we should not judge them, nor should there be any rules that a 40 year old can't fantasize about an 18 year old. I mean come on, would you fantasize about a 40 year old post-menopausal kitchen bitch or a nice 18 year old woman?
The choice is clear. Unless you're into oldies.
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