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I dont think 'feminism' is a bad thing, its just like with any other cause, some people take it to extremes. Equal rights & opportunities should exist regardless of gender, sexual preference, race, religion, etc. Sitting back and allowing our opportunities as females to be pigeon holed into 1 role (stay at home baby maker) is for those who want to build a compound & cut off their electric & live on the land. Sure I wouldnt mind staying home & raising a family for a few yrs, but unless I marry a guy who can support us during that time of luxury, then its not going to be possible. To be honest, I'd get bored, things should be 50-50. On a date, I have a hard time letting a guy pay for anything for me, and if at all possible I will at least try to pay the tip if he wont let me pay for my half. When my ex & I would go out, he'd pay for dinner, then i'd pay for the movies, or if we split dinner, then went to the movies, he'd buy the tickets & I'd pay for the popcorn & drinks and we'd share. I dont like to feel as if I'm inferior to a man or dependant upon anyone. if I'm not holding my own, then I'm not happy.
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