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OMG, RRRED, I had no idea and I have not seen you in years. I thought you were working for adult.com, are you still?
Honey, you are so doing the right thing.
In 2001, my wife of 16 years had an affair with a woman, I ended my marriage and she moved out with this new lover of hers. I had no assets in my name due to some shit from the past still trying to grab my assets, and I was waiting out the 7 years until the judgement expired...so my ex-took all the checkbooks and all the damn money...left me with bills, no car, nothing.
I closed down "OnTheRopes.com" resource site in 1999, could not pay server bill. Could not get financing or a used car....debt out my ass....
I had that same reality check you talk about, and ditched the used cadillac I got a year after our divorce, and got me a Chevy truck...one year after divorce I could have assets again..and all those judgements expired...I finally qualifed for a new truck financing plan...it had been 8 years!
I got an equity loan, paid off the truck, paid off the debt, and live simple.
I have made millions of dollars in my life but I never was as happy as I am now with a real simple life and no financial demands....
YOU GO GIRL! Keep us up with what is going on babee...I am so proud of you!
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