Originally Posted by L0stMind

you know, there is NO reason for a man to hit and choke a woman, unless she is somehow a threat (knife, guns, etc.) and his life was threatened.

I couldn't ever see myself hitting a girl like that.

Reading your post, almost seems like you are accepting of abuse somehow. Dont turn into one of those women who defend their abusive husband...

I'd say you've picked a real loser and you should just leave.... his going to war bullshit is some weird fucked up shit.