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Originally Posted by JHHM
Well Im glad people are enjoying this thread about me. What *Ricks* has failed provide you all is a little background info about my bf and I. Since you all seem to be so curious, here you go. We've been dating almost 9 years. He has been unfaithful many times in the past, in the form of online sites. He did not inform me of his user name. I came on this site because I enjoyed reading some of the posts, until I stumbled upon one that resembled my bf's. I then found over 200 posts by him, many made referals to him wanting to meet other women in FL while I am home in another country. When I confronted him about the posts, he claimed the *Ricks* was the one to post them. Not only has he written inappropriate posts about other women, when he claims to be monogamous, but he has denied even writing them. I am not crazy, I simply realize that I deserve better than some asshole who constantly lies to me. Hope you all enjoyed my post, and Ricks YOU CAN GO FUCK YOURSELF.
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What do you mean by "inform you of his username" ... does he have to have full disclosure over every site he goes on? In 9 years, you should have learned a few things besides "deserving better". A relationship is built on trust, committment, and communication. Online msg boards are nothing more than venting and fun. Sometimes when a relationship is some constrictive & smothering a guy or girl will do anything for a little space & freedom. Whether a guy or girl has intention to cheat, if they are always being accused of it and watched over every min of the day, as soon as the opportunity does arrise, they will take it. Not because they wanted to, but why not, they've been accused of it, its not like it matters anymore, you're damned if you do, and damned if you dont.
I've only been on GFY a few weeks, but I've posted some lude & crude comments about pics... if a guy were to read my posts and try to psychoanalyze me and base our relationship off a few posts on a message board, then he's the one who needs help, not me. Just because I sa a girl has nice tits or a nice ass, doesn't mean I'm going to run out and become a lesbian because I looked at some nice TnA on GFY. Just because I see Juicy's hot body in EVERY thread doesnt mean I'm gonna try to hit that either! lol
Attacking RICKS for your shitty relationship ending & your lack of trust & insecurities seems a little "crazy" if you ask me... but who am I, just another liar & cheater waiting to happen on GFY (future bfs beware!)
