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Originally Posted by MarkTiarra
In my experience the best thing to do is have an open/swinger relationship. No one is "tied down" and there is no reason to be secretive. You share each others adventures...s ex is sex but love will always trump that so why not share some sexcapades together?
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Yes, but those type of relationships ONLY work with 2 people that are open, honest, and communicate well. anyone who is the least bit insecure or lacks trust and the relationship is no better than his current situation. Everytime your girl or guy walks out the door you'll be wondering who or what they are fucking, they do it in front of you, what would stop them from doing it behind your back... see where I'm coming from. I offered an open/swing/swap situation to the guy I was just dating, BIG mistake, it wasn't like I wanted to cheat on him, I just wanted to add some girls to the situation. COMPLETELY, ruined the relationship, from that point on he was convinced I wanted to cheat and sleep with other people. Sometimes when you date someone who's insecure & lacks trust, even just discussing a subject can add just enough doudt to ruin any future. The only solution is a Poly Marriage ;) I'm kidding... I could never live in a compound, but I wouldn't mind visiting and checking it out ;) Might make for a nice cam site. lol