I'm not in the US, but when I receive wires my bank actually mails me notification, so I can see exactly who it's from, what the conversion rate was, and what their fee is ($AUD8/$USD6.20 at the moment)
At first it was annoying to receive a bit of paper every week but it's actually quite handy to file it away and be able to refer back to it later. Perhaps your bank can do something similar? Then again knowing banks they'd probably charge you extra for it.
