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Originally Posted by galleryseek
there's romance, and then there's true romance, real romance.
i guess you could say this is what seperates me from a lot of people here, who have relationships based on either money, sex, appearence, or power. too many people base their relationships on one of those four things, and any amount of romance experienced is nothing strong enough to breach the heart in any significant amount.
true romance can be present only if the two are together for one thing, and one thing only, each other. a bond so strong that the idea of having sex with another person seems like a knife through the heart, so strong that they could live like royalty in a dumpster.
true romance is not about the minor details of roses, dinners, bubblebaths, and what have you... but about the reflection of what you are, and why you are.
if you want your girl to have a really romantic night, try not to focus on those material things. focus on creating an environment condusive towards a unified reflection of who you are.
Thanks,
Dr. Phil
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that's true but focusing all your attention on making HER feel relaxed, loved, happy all at the same time (like my idea of something romantic that I typed) has nothing to do with material things. True romance is not about the things that you mentioned but if it's something that you actually enjoy doing and know that she enjoys doing it too or having it done to her then both will be in a very happy enviroment. The whole idea of romance is to make the one you're with feel like she is all that matters, loves, respected etc.. Of course, if all a guy does is go out and buy all these expensive material things and tries to pass them off as "romantic" that to me is like treating her like a hooker. You're trying to buy her with all that shit.
bubble bath in candle light: allows her to relax and think about how happy she is and how much you must love her for doing this. This will put her in a great mood.
there are many things that can be done but don't do it just because you think she may like it.. Do something that you enjoy and something that you know she enjoys. This way you will be doing it from the heart with love which is the way it should be. Then again, why is it people need a special day to treat their bf/gf like this? We shouldn'tneed a special day made just for that.. We should be treating our gf's this way as much as possible and not just because it's valentines day. If you truly love the one you're with then why wait all year to be romantic/loving/caring/sweet/compassionate etc..
Treat her with love all year long