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there's romance, and then there's true romance, real romance.
i guess you could say this is what seperates me from a lot of people here, who have relationships based on either money, sex, appearence, or power. too many people base their relationships on one of those four things, and any amount of romance experienced is nothing strong enough to breach the heart in any significant amount.
true romance can be present only if the two are together for one thing, and one thing only, each other. a bond so strong that the idea of having sex with another person seems like a knife through the heart, so strong that they could live like royalty in a dumpster.
true romance is not about the minor details of roses, dinners, bubblebaths, and what have you... but about the reflection of what you are, and why you are.
if you want your girl to have a really romantic night, try not to focus on those material things. focus on creating an environment condusive towards a unified reflection of who you are.
Thanks,
Dr. Phil
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