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Tough break SD. Looks like you have 9 days of hell coming up. When you go to court, I'm sure they'll mention something about porn which will make you look like shit. But don't worry about it. You have until then to decide whether you're really out of the biz or not. If you are out, fine, tell the judge that, I'm sure he will like it. If you do stay in, that's fine too, but you'll need to use your persuasion skills and convince the judge that your involvement with porn will have no affect on your family life and will actually create more time for you to spend with your children.
If your wife says that all you do is work on the computer all day, be sure to tell the judge EVERYTHING. You're online all day for a reason: to make money for the family. If it were me, I would be pretty pissed at my wife right now. She walked out on you, with your children (I think in some cases this can even be considered kidnapping), avoiding all financial responsibility. Fuck! You're stuck with rent and all the bills while she runs to mommy's. And then has the nerve to prevent you from seeing your kids for no clear reason.
I do have one question though, on what grounds are all these restraining orders? You're leaving out a huge chunk of the story. When I filed a restraining order I had to detail everything. When the person received the order they were able to read and see the grounds, that IS their right. As it is your right to know what grounds the restraining order is based on.
Hit me up on ICQ if you have any more questions about how the court process goes. This isn't the end of the world, it's only a bump in the road.
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