My two cents.
Spacedog I don't give a fuck about what anyone here on the board is whining or bitching about. You came through on the project I paid you for and exceeded my expectations. If you need full time skilled web employment in Massachusetts I may know someone that needs a webmaster.
Aside from that... Get gainful employment and a roof over your head and then pick up the pieces. Your wife and kids are the most important thing but it doesn't appear you can have that back until you get a job and a permanent residence.
May the best of luck be on your side SD! There's second chances for everyone, thank god for that
Brad
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