Space,
I had a feeling when i first read your post that the "porn" could be the problem (with mom and wife) Some people don't digest it well. I keep "business" to myself. Because my family would freak and think I am some kind of sex freak. I grew up in a christian envirement and I respect my parents alot. however I do have different views. I started getting into this business 4 years ago when I was pregnant. I became a diabetic and could not work, due to having a "high risk pregnancy". So I started learning html and frankly I enjoyed surfing

So I thought what the hell, I can do this,, and I learned it. It became very profitable for me and my family. I was alarmed to read that your daughter was spending alot of time out of your home. I guess I am a over protective Mom and I refuse for my daughter to visit anywhere without knowing, and having say when she will return.
This business does take an extreme amount of time online, and some people dont and refuse to understand. In the future, I would be very discrete in order to protect yourself. I do feel bad for your situation, but you are healthy and willing and from what it looks like have many friends. At first I was somewhat iffy about it all due to the constant shit stirred up on here, but with all that aside i am being straight with you. Good Luck Man.
Lanie~*~