Chodadog ... stop wasting your time on them Bro ... if they have not got a clue by now .... they never will ...
At least your cousin has the support of a few of us ... He will be fine ... this time ..
But I agree 100% that it is up to him ... he can learn a lesson, and get his feet back on solid ground ... or he can continue to make excuses why he can or can't do something ... and he will be in this same boat within 4-6 months ... next time I don't think ANYBODY will come running to his aid ...
Jody, if you are reading this, I am on your team .... and you know that ... but for CHRIST SAKES man ... stop making an excuse for why you life is how it is ... use this chance to fix it ... and get your family back ... I WISH YOU THE BEST OF LUCK, BROTHER ...
My grandmother found religeon at the age of 71 .... and started preaching unto all of us
... but the one thing she told me, which I think may be even quoting the good book, is that God helps those who help themselves ....
Well I am not even beginning to compare myself to him ...(LOL) ...
But I play by dem rulez too ... I am all for helpoing you in any way I can to get back on your feet ... but fall into the same rut again, and you'll be crying on deaf ears bro ...
You and I talked long enough last night, that I know you know EXACTly where I am coming from
