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Spacedog Facts:
What is Spacedog's age?
Spacedog Quote:"Hmm.. miltary,.,, tried that back in 89.. didnt get in.. tried again in 92.. did good on asvab, got in,, signed papers. went to the meps station at the barnes building in boston.. got physical.. & didnt pass.. was sent home.."
Spacedog had to be at least 18 in '89 so he would be a minimum of 31 now.
Sapcedog Quote: "I don't know what to do..."
Why wouldn't a 31 year old man know what to do?
Spacedog Quote: "...I'm hurting & freaking out right now, & I'm alone & have no one to talk to..."
Where are the aunts-uncles-cousins-friends-college mates? Could it be he has burnt all of his bridges; much like he has done on this board.
Spacedog Quote: :As some of you know, I had a fire last year.. April 27th, 2001.. in salem, massachusetts..from that point til oct24th I was homeless with my wife & children living in hotels "
What happened to the insurance money from the fire? Even if you are a renter you can still have insurance. $20,000 for personal belonings is not uncommon. Wouldn't a responsible person with a wife and children have insurance? Where I am from living in hotels is a hell of lot more expensive then renting. If you lack the first and last required; in this state Social Services will help you out on that.
Spacedog Quote: "In late october, we relocated to Maine because the hotels were cheaper & our money & savings has run out.. so, here we were in this hotel in maine & I picked up a paper & called some apartment ads, & ended up moving into where I live now.. It's a nice house on the beach, but it's in the middle of nowhere & there's no jobs anywhere local.. my original plan was to get a reliable job, but on christmas eve my family & I went to visit my mom in cape cod, massachusetts.. anyway, while coming home from cape cod, I had an accident & the cars been sitting in this repair shop ever since..."
He moves into a house (apparently in October) located in the middle of nowhere knowing there are not any jobs available locally, has a shit car, and his plan is to commute somewhere to work. Bad plan.
Spacedog Quote: "...it's a seasonal rental, & this area is a tourist town, & now spring is here & my tenancy has come to an end & I have to get out & move.. I can't stay here.. my term has ended & the rent goes up to $1500 a week for the summer..."
He has known since October that it is a seasonal rental so how does he spend his time? Messing around with porn and posting his lies about anything and everything. Is this the actions of a responsible man with a wife and small children?
Spacedog Quote: "Transportation was what prevented real job from happening.. had accident on xmas eve..
no job since then, so did webmaster full time,.., makes some money, but not enough to save to move.. only enough to pay for food, diapers, laundry.. bills, etc.. the living necessities...
Couldnt even pay the rent .. either."
How far behind is Spacedog on his rent? No one will ever know the truth because Spacedog can't handle the truth. Maybe when you sell whatever it is you have to sell or get whatever donations someone may give you; you should do the honest thing and attempt to square up with your landlord.
Nice guys don't usually have the things happen to them that Spacedog claims happened to him. Ex-wives don't usually disappear with the children without cause. Current wives don't leave and not return, or call, without cause. Mothers don't take out restraining orders without cause. Aunts-Uncles-Cousins-Friends-Class Mates are usually there to extend a helping hand unless that hand has been shit on before.
I feel sorry for Spacedog; but not to the extent that I would offer a helping hand. My youngest son is 26 and does not do well in life (much like Spacedog) and I have had to do the tough love thing with him. You don't help by keeping on helping. There comes a time when a man has to reap the wild wind and come to grips with himself.
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