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I too believe ex's are ex's for a reason..
I don't know the full story, only what you wrote here but i can see how tough it is for you at the moment...
Money is an issue, as its costing you loads to go see the kids, rather than have them with you. However if you invite her back it wont be just the kids staying in the house with you, but also your wife..
I don't want to judge anything, but i think if you let her back you have in a way shown her that she can do whatever she wants to you and still have you..
I don't know if you can see it or not, but like someone else said as well, i would be coming to you too if i was struggling for money and stuff. I want to make sure you understand that she is coming back PRIMARILY because she struggles with her life (i.e. crap paying job) rather than because she actually loves you, and i know this hurts but maybe you can't see it.
Women can be very decieving and you really need to be careful because it might mess up your life more..
if you are 100% convinced she trully wants to be with you for what you ARE, and rather for what you can OFFER her, then go for it..
But if i was you i think if i really wanted to have my kids with me i;d tell her she needs to find a job for her own expenses. All the bills can be paid by you, but that 500$ alloance has got to go... Don't give her back EVERYTHING she had before man....
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