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Originally Posted by BVF
I don't care WHY she comes back as long as I can see my children. Once they're grown, she can do what she wants. It's no fun living in a three bedroom house all by yourself. I have all the hoes and sluts I want. I make a nice income now and I'm just a handsome chocolate brotha all around. But it means nothing without your kids and family.
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I can def relate to that house shit, it sucks but sometimes it's worth it to find the right one. I'm hoping my "SweetCutie" is out there... I'm getting to the point of been there done that=)
Here's my 2 cents on everything. You're in a unique situation, just like one of my best friends. I'll give you the same advice I gave him. He's got a 7yr on and off relationhsip and he's got a kid. She and I believe your ex; are looking at you as a convience. If the $$ wasn't there, Would she look at you the same? Very few people know I came from a divorced home and it hurts... that's prob why I'm fucked up to this day. Anyway, my parents stayed together till I was 18 and it was pure hell! Trust me when I say that! It's not worth it, if you're doing it for your kids. Both of you will stray and your household will be fucked up.
Just my advice man... good knowing you for 4yrs or so.
Happy New Year