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Before I start, this is my first post to GFY. I have registered specifically to make it. Let me explain:
Unlike almost everyone posting on this thread, I *do* know Sarah personally, and I knew Marc before he and she were just a whirlwind in an IRC channel. So I know a lot of things that everyone else here doesn't.
For instance, I know that the only thing that mattered to Marc was Sarah's happiness - however she found it.
Maybe some of you want your partner to grieve and be miserable after your death but to me that's just selfishness, and Marc was the most unselfish person I ever knew.
I know that Sarah didn't ask GFY for money, but that she needs it as much now as she did before she posted in a moment of lightheartedness, and that she was touched to her heart when she learned a collection was being made on her behalf.
Maybe you think she ripped you off but then, what's this? You only wanted your money to go to a miserable grieving widow? A happy widow not good enough for you? Hmmm - I'm beginning to see a pattern here...
I also know that having sex and making love are two different things. I'd hope everyone who worked in the sex industry knew that, but apparently, no.
Maybe you think "getting off" equates to "getting over". But then maybe you really need to get off more now, before you yourself have deal with "getting over".
And finally, I know that opinions are like arseholes - everyone has one but you just look like an idiot displaying it in public.
And maybe you think that includes me. But now, having aired mine, I'll go to bed remembering the great friend I had for 20 years who died far too soon.
I wonder what you'll all think about, having aired yours.
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