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Sarah has no reason to explain herself to strangers who may care but not understand her situation in life or emotional state. Under so much pain and duress, especially at this time of year, if she needed to reach out to a caring friend, she knows in her heart what is right. Who are we to question the needs and actions of others we barely know? The greif must be unbearable. Who knows how any of us would hold up under the same circumstances? I can only hope that she finds the strength to hold on and find more reasons life is work living for. I know if I left my husband behind I would rather he reach out to a caring friend he can both console in and find confort in sharing intimacy with rather than a stranger who wouldn't give a fuck about him when all is said and done and he is left with guilt and even more pain. It is my feeling that Sarah, in her own way, is honoring his memory by continuing to do what feels right and best for her - from my distant point of view it seems to be something that he would have understood. This is a time to be supportive, not judemental. I feel sorry that some here cannot understand (even if they do not agree) that sex can be theraputic and healthy when you are both careful and conscious of the decisions you make. Life Strong Sarah. Don't take any of this BS to heart. Only you know what is best for you. Live for it - we all know life is too short not to.
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