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Originally Posted by Thomas Jefferson
I am not taking sides on this issue because I cannot see it from her side. I personally would not be able to just run out and start having sex with people the moment my wife died, however, it is her life and she may live it however she chooses. If this is her way of dealing with the pain of a sudden loss then I am not the one to tell her its wrong.
BUT! She is the one who came to the board and created the thread telling everyone about it, she has also posted about her and other men on several occasions since then and she accepted all of the donations that were offered to her. That does put her in a position for people to comment on it.
If she did not want this she should have never posted and never accepted the donations. By doing so she put herself in a position for people to make judgment and comment about her, regardless of whether it is right or wrong to do so.
Everyone is entitled to their opinion and it does not matter if you agree or disagree, you should respect that.
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While I admit it is an extreme example...this sounds to me like people claiming a woman deserved to get raped because she was walking down the street alone, at night, and in a short skirt....because she put herself in that situation. And even though it may be wrong for the rapist to take advantage of her doing so, she should have known that was going to happen and she should accept it because she put herself in that situation.
And that, my friend, is a very disturbing attitude.