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Originally Posted by DonovanPhillips
No, I wouldn't. I'd be glad she found a release from the heartbreak, if only for a short time. Once you're dead you can't come back. If you truly love someone you'd never ever want them to feel pain. You'd want their pain to go away as quickly as possible.
I can't believe people can't see why this happens. It's completely normal, natural, and healthy. Ever heard of "rebound sex"? Example: rebounding off someone else when you've JUST broken up with someone you love? Do you think the same thing doesn't happen when the one you love dies? I think it's even more so when a death occurs because you know you can never get your lover back. I think I'd rebound hard. You probably would too. One can only sit around crying the blues for so long.
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You are one compassionate guy. For me.....I have clearly told my husband that he better morn for me forever or I will haunt him for the rest of his life. =)
What Sarah does is no ones business but her own...I totally agree with that.
I think the main problem here is people are people and everyone reacts in a different manner and everyone has varying moral standards. We have people who are swingers and we have couples who believe in total monogamy. Each individual has to decide for themselves what is right and what is wrong for themselves.
After saying all of that....and knowing in my heart that none of this is anyones damn business but Sarahs.....I do have to say that in a small way I too feel cheated....no...it does not have to do with donations...it has to do with crying my eyes out while reading her story....feeling like it was almost a movie...a passionate love that would be with her forever...and then finding out that sex is sex and love is love. See...with some of us...there isn't a difference....and I think perhaps that is where the misunderstanding lies.